Dear @manspeterson,

Every generation believes that things are getting worse, and in some ways they probably are. As a pragmatist with surprisingly optimistic long term views, I think we are getting better. Even this slow thought experiment says to me that the human need for deep, significant connection is unstoppable.

I admit to being a former cheerleader for social media… Remember when Twitter was like a fun cocktail party where you got to meet and interact with interesting and interested people? I do. And I miss that, heck, I even miss the 140 char limit.

But now, a decade or so later, my understanding of the dangerous intersection of human psychology with capitalism is more informed. Pinning our hopes for a Star Trek-like future where open communication with everyone results in generally positive outcomes is entirely delusionary if it hinges on the product roadmaps of current social media giants. The answer is not there.

Is the idea of a place where people can come together across social, cultural, and ideological differences to speak of complicated things delusional? No. But it sure is decreasingly possible with today's social media options.

How humans should communicate? So much psychology research points to small group interactions as the locus for truly meaningful communication.

Who doesn't love a handwritten letter from a friend? Physical letters are true material travelers: echoes of our former selves. This slow thoughts exploration—limited and requiring patience—is a step into that direction.

What's next?

Sincerely yours,
@carlacasilli